On the day that we mourn the destruction of the Beis Hamikdash, we explore the unfortunate
phenomenon of contentious divorce facing our community. Together, we’ll discuss solutions to
prepare our children for successful marriages that are destined to be Binyanei Adei Ad. This Tisha
B’av, join thousands of Yidden around the world in safeguarding and enhancing Shalom Bayis.
Why are there so many more contentious divorces nowadays?
What can parents do to avoid the pitfalls of divorce for their children?
Let’s explore some answers to these questions and more this Tisha B’Av.
Maran Posek Hador HaGaon
HaRav Moshe Sternbuch, Shlita
HaGaon HaRav Hillel David
Chaver Moetzes Gedolei Hatorah
HaGaon HaRav Noach Isaac Oelbaum
Mara D’Asra of Khal Nachalas Yitzchok
HaGaon HaRav Yaakov Bender
Rosh Yeshivas Darchei Torah
Rabbi Yosef Greenfeld
Rov Kehillas Chestnut, Lakewood
Rabbi Dovid Goldwasser
Rov K’hal Bais Yitzchak
Charlie Harary
Motivational Speaker
Rabbi Yitzchok Hisiger
Editor, ArtScroll / Yated Ne’eman
Rabbi Chaim Dovid Zwiebel
Executive Vice President,
Agudath Israel of America
Rabbi Dr. Benzion Twerski, PhD
Therapist
Rabbi Moshe Meir Weiss
Rav Agudas Yisroel of Staten Island
Rabbi Zechariah Wallerstein Zt"l
Founder & Director, Ohr Naava
Eli Goldbaum
Cofounder, Yashar Initiative
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Marital conflict is all too common. Trauma in children of divorced homes is common too. Establishing the means to peacefully and swiftly deal with friction before it arises can make all the difference. Enter: The Heskem Chosson v’Kallah.
The couple designates a specific agreed-upon Beis Din, avoiding considerable discord surrounding the legal arrangements in the future.
Developed by rabbanim, legal professionals, and experienced therapists, the Heskem enables couples to enter marriage with an ideal arrangement in place in the event of future conflict. You can view the full Heskem and its protocols here
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You’re getting married. You want the home you build to be strong and secure. Forethought might be uncomfortable, but it can change everything. You can safeguard yourself, your marriage, and your future children. Enter: The Heskem Chosson v’Kallah.
The Beis Din will first explore with the couple whether they can mend the Shalom Bayis and find a way to save the marriage.
Developed by rabbanim, legal professionals, and experienced therapists, the Heskem enables couples to enter marriage with an ideal arrangement in place in the event of future conflict. You can view the full Heskem and its protocols here
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Marriage begins with a set of common goals and value systems. But what happens when those commonalities change, r”l? Many divorces involve custody battles where the lives of Torah and Mitzvos for the children are at stake. Enter: The Heskem Chosson v’Kallah.
The Beis Din will ensure that Kashrus and Shmiras Shabbos are kept, protecting the children’s spiritual environment, despite the alternating domestic arrangements.
Developed by rabbanim, legal professionals, and experienced therapists, the Heskem enables couples to enter marriage with an ideal arrangement in place in the event of future conflict. You can view the full Heskem and its protocols here
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The repercussions of contentious divorces are deep and painful. The fallout is not something you want your kids and grandchildren dealing with. The Heskem Chosson v’Kallah is a precaution which can protect them years down the line. Enter: The Heskem Chosson v’Kallah.
Beis Din will ensure that the process is expedited to avoid lengthy divorce proceedings.
Developed by rabbanim, legal professionals, and experienced therapists, the Heskem enables couples to enter marriage with an ideal arrangement in place in the event of future conflict. You can view the full Heskem and its protocols here
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Marital conflict is all too common. Trauma in children of divorced homes is common too. Establishing the means to peacefully and swiftly deal with friction before it arises can make all the difference. Enter: The Heskem Chosson v’Kallah.
The couple designates a specific agreed-upon Beis Din, avoiding considerable discord surrounding the legal arrangements in the future.
Developed by rabbanim, legal professionals, and experienced therapists, the Heskem enables couples to enter marriage with an ideal arrangement in place in the event of future conflict. You can view the full Heskem and its protocols here
Haskomos on the Heskem:HaGaon HaRav Shlomo Miller, shlita
HaGaon HaRav Moshe Sternbuch, shlita
HaGaon HaRav Hillel David, shlita
HaGaon HaRav Yaakov Forchheimer, shlita
HaGaon HaRav Noach Isaac Oelbaum, shlita
HaGaon HaRav Asher Hatchuel, shlita
If conflict ever arises, it is vital to have a preset agreement in place. The Heskem Chosson v’Kallah is a gender-neutral, mutually beneficial contract that can help avoid heartache and save families.
